Tuesday, August 23, 2005

From The Chronicles

I've stated in the past that I've started a journal for my sons for when they go off to college. I'm including things that are happening right now and life lessons. Wanna read an excerpt?


I said earlier not to make girls your enemy. Typically, our enemies are people that we don't like. If you don't like girls, then you should be gay and since you're not gay, you shouldn't have them as your enemies. It's only logical, right? A woman is the other half of a man. Man can't go on without her, so treat her well; be a man. Don't try to impress your guy friends by hooking up with girls and then talking about them to your friends because that exploits the woman. As a man, your job is to impress a woman, not some punk ass dude, come on now. Your goal as a straight man should be to gain the respect of a woman.


Now, I know what you're thinking. There are women out there that are money hungry, that use you, that cheat, lie, steal, etc, etc, etc, blah, blah, blah. You just got to be up on your game so you can recognize their bullshit and avoid them broads. You have to recognize when a girl is using you. If she keeps asking for money or rides everywhere and you find yourself doing a lot more for her than she's doing for you then cancel her, homie. And as far as cheaters, getting even with a chick that plays you or trying to conquer a player chick is just not worth your time. You need to invest that time and energy into someone that's worth your time, someone that gives you the attention that you deserve as a good man. What will you get out of a chick that is just about games or a chick that isn't willing to invest the same energy that you're investing in her? Nothing, trust me. I've done all that noise and it's been the biggest waste of time. Messing around with girls like that will just make you look bad. Again, your goal as a man is to look good in the eyes of women, good women. All those broads that try playing you, forget about them and keep being the best man that you can be. Nothing gets to a woman more than seeing another woman happier because she's got her a good catch, believe that... and it'll make you feel damn good knowing that you're that catch. It'll make the game player regret that she ever let you go. I've been there too. Besides, if you turn out to be the kind of guy that plays games those women will say "good" to having gotten rid of you; you really want to go out like that? Forget about it.


Now, I know yall may think the talk is a bit tough with some cursing but these will be men off to college by the time they get this. They should be able to handle it and it'll probably be more on their level if I talk to them like men. I'll be teaching them these life lessons as they're growing up but this will act as reinforcement... plus it'll show them how much I love them :o)

[ TheSaga | 12:38 PM | ]