Saturday, July 09, 2005
Worried
I'm concerned about my son. His mom (my exwife) has not allowed me to speak with him all day and denied me seeing him, saying that he's going to stay with her mom, then saying that he's going to stay with her when it's supposed to be my day with him. I'm supposed to keep him from Saturday until Tuesday and she's not even let me speak to him. Her excuse is that "he's comfortable" where he is but he's equally comfortable in my house. He's always asking to come here and be with me.
Before, we would always agree on who would see him and when. That's how it was written on the divorce degree, we'd agree when each of us would get him. Now she's always telling me when I'm going to see him. She's not in charge of that. We agreed on joint custody and that we'd have him an equal amount of time. I take on the majority of his costs. I spend good time with him. We're always bonding and he loves it. What's going on here? Why is she being like this? We've always been mutual with everything regarding him. What the fuck?!! Is she trying to set me up so she can take me to court or something? Considering that I pay all of his day care costs and that I have equal time with him, meaning I have equal expenses with him when he's with me, I don't see what the fuck her issue is. I'm fuckin worried here, man. This isn't like her. I need to see my son.
I just spoke with her mom and she told me that since my son's mom is pregnant she just gets upset easily and gets that way with everyone so not to worry. She says that after she has the baby everything will be cool. Shit still worries me though. I want to see my son, I miss him.
2 Comments:
I'm worried that tolerating that stuff a little bit will lead her to think that it is acceptable. I would document it and turn it over to the lawyer.
I just can't understand that sort of behavior. And it's going to bite her in the ass when your son is old enough to really understand the situation.
well, everything is back to normal now. i think she was just having a bitch phase. regardless, i've documented it and am holding on to it. thanks for the concern, yall.
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