Wednesday, July 13, 2005
Going Out
Because I'm tired of going out, I'm a little insecure about dating because I don't know whether I'll entertain my date or just bore her. I'm tired of the club scene so I don't care to go dancing much, I'm tired of paying an arm and a leg for a drink at a nice bar, there ain't much to do at the lakefront, and I don't feel like just sitting at home talking to a chick. I have very few options. I think I might frequent a few "poetry" clubs but that shit's played out too. Everybody sounds the same at those joints: The MAN, man bashing, woman bashing, my self worth, etc, it all sounds the damn same.
I've met a couple of chicas that I might ask out but I can't think of what we should do. I do want to impress them and have a good time. Movies never really get old but you can't get to know someone at a movie, ya know? I guess I might take them to all the places I'm tired of because like I said, there isn't too much that I'm interested in right now. I pretty much just want to concentrate in getting to know them and having a few laughs. In order to get to know a woman though, I feel like I have to pay, and take them out, etc to keep them interested. I don't believe that that is the case with most women but that's just how I feel. I probably don't have to take them to fancy joints but it just seems like that's what the competition for a woman's attention demands.
Maybe I shouldn't even bother meeting women for a while.
[ TheSaga | 7:38 AM | 
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2 Comments:
it is interesting how some women need to be taken out to have a good time, and others are able to appreciate doing "nothing" with the RIGHT person...accept it won't FEEL like nothing because being with someone cool will be enough, in itself....I haven't met you but I get the impression that you are the type that could take a lady anywhere, and captivate her with your "charm"..and you ain't bad on the eyes, so thats always a plus.
maybe impressing a lady with a laundry list of activities shouldn't be your goal. ..some women like that laid back, kicking it type deal. I hope you find a cool chick to just BE with, with no pressure/expectations and good company. A nice distraction from your problems without needing too much energy. Actually I need to find that in a cool dude right about now.
Diva: yeah, i've known a lot that dont need to be taken out but i think that maybe i've gotten used to going out when dating a lot too, which makes them expect it, ya know? i think i just need time alone.
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